·         Codependency is the fallacy of trying to control interior feelings by controlling people, things, and events on the outside. To the codependent, control or the lack of it is central to every aspect of life.

·         The codependent may be addicted to another person. In the interpersonal codependency, the codependent has become so elaborately enmeshed in the other person that the sense of self-personal identity – is severely restricted, crowded out by that other person’s iden...